{"id":4660,"date":"2019-02-25T15:24:30","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T13:24:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.viata.org\/?p=4660"},"modified":"2019-03-04T11:54:55","modified_gmt":"2019-03-04T09:54:55","slug":"sarbatorile-de-iarna-craciunul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.viata.org\/ro\/2019\/02\/sarbatorile-de-iarna-craciunul\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u0103rb\u0103torile de iarn\u0103 – Cr\u0103ciunul"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

S\u0103rb\u0103torile de iarn\u0103<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Cr\u0103ciunul<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

\u0218ti\u021bi deja<\/a> c\u0103 m-am n\u0103scut \u00een Moldova \u0219i mi-am \u00eenceput via\u021ba \u00eentr-o familie tradi\u021bional\u0103… M-am bucurat de mic de sosirea lui Mo\u0219 Cr\u0103ciun<\/a> \u2013 sau Mo\u0219 Geril\u0103??! Da, parc\u0103 a\u0219a \u00eencepuse, cu Mo\u0219 Geril\u0103: a\u0219a stabiliser\u0103 comuni\u0219tii. Nu de prea multe ori, ca s\u0103 zic a\u0219a, pentru c\u0103 la 4 sau la 5 ani (nici mama nu mai \u0219tie exact) \ud83d\ude00 mi-am dat seama imediat c\u0103 tata s-a \u00eembr\u0103cat \u00een costum de mo\u0219: \u201dMama, \u0103sta-i tata!\u201d- mi-aduce mama aminte \u2013 dup\u0103 care am \u00eenceput s\u0103-l trag de barb\u0103. L-am recunoscut dup\u0103 voce, dup\u0103 cum tot ea \u00eemi aminte\u0219te. A\u0219a c\u0103 s-a rupt repede vraja \ud83d\ude42 \ud83d\ude42 \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

Asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu-mi pl\u0103cea \u00een continuare: \u0219tiam c\u0103 voi primi cadouri, c\u0103 voi m\u00e2nca bomboanele din brad l\u0103s\u00e2nd h\u00e2rtia umflat\u0103 la loc, ca \u0219i c\u00e2nd erau tot acolo, \u0219i c\u0103 merg cu colindul, cu uratul \u0219i cu Capra prin Groz\u0103ve\u0219ti (de obicei), satul copil\u0103riei mamei mele. Acolo locuiau \u0219i veri\u0219orii no\u0219tri Mihaela, Mioara \u0219i Emi, copiii surorii mai mare a mamei, cu care ne \u00een\u021belegeam foarte bine a\u0219a c\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103 cu Cristi, fratele meu, ne-am petrecut de multe ori vacan\u021ba de iarn\u0103 la ei.<\/p>\n

Totu\u0219i, de c\u00e2nd m-am prins care-i treaba cu mo\u0219ul m-am \u00eentrebat de ce nu primesc eu a\u0219a, direct, cadouri, de la mama \u0219i de la tata. A\u0219a-s eu, practic! \ud83d\ude42 Am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 povestea mo\u0219ului<\/a> este cumva legat\u0103 de na\u0219terea \u201dDomnului Nostru Isus Hristos\u201d \u0219i asta nu mi s-a p\u0103rut a\u0219a, interesant.<\/p>\n

De mers la slujb\u0103 nu prea mergeam – nu m\u0103 d\u0103deam \u00een v\u00e2nt, apoi cred c\u0103 m\u0103 salva oricum frigul.<\/p>\n

Pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 bomboanele din brad, savuram alte dulciuri de toate felurile pe care le cump\u0103ra sau le f\u0103cea mama. Bine\u00een\u021beles, cozonacii erau la putere!! Cu m\u00e2ncarea<\/a> am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 dau \u00een v\u00e2nt mai t\u00e2rziu \u0219i c\u00e2nd am trecut de vreo 16 ani, la astea s-a ad\u0103ugat vinul. Ro\u0219u, de \u021bar\u0103, c\u0103 era din bel\u0219ug \u0219i era gratis: toat\u0103 lumea f\u0103cea vin. \u0218i mai to\u021bi colegii mei de liceu beau, mai mult sau mai pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n

M\u00e2ncarea f\u0103cea parte integrant\u0103 din aceast\u0103 s\u0103rb\u0103toare, inclusiv t\u0103iatul porcului. De obicei cu c\u00e2teva zile \u00eenainte de Cr\u0103ciun mergeam la Trife\u0219ti, la bunicii din partea tat\u0103lui, unde t\u0103iam unul sau ambii porci crescu\u021bi de ei peste an. Porcul, s\u0103racu\u2019, \u021bipa c\u00e2t \u00eel \u021bineau bojocii, da\u2019 asta nu conta deloc. Nu interesa pe nimeni. A\u0219a c\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 excep\u021bie, aveam de Cr\u0103ciun jum\u0103ri, \u0219orici, caltabo\u0219, c\u00e2rna\u021bi, r\u0103cituri (adic\u0103 piftie :P), sarmale, friptur\u0103, toate de porc. Plus salat\u0103 boeuf \u2013 asta era de vit\u0103. Astea toate \u00eenseamn\u0103, \u00eens\u0103, o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de preg\u0103tiri. Muncea mama, s\u0103raca, m\u0103car dou\u0103 zile. Noi o ajutam c\u00e2nd am mai crescut cu cur\u0103\u021benia \u00een cas\u0103 \u0219i cu ce-i mai trebuia, ce nu apucase s\u0103 cumpere.<\/p>\n

\u0218i apoi ne ghiftuiam bine, c\u0103, deh, cum s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nci unul sau dou\u0103 feluri. Pe masa de Cr\u0103ciun erau toate!!! \u0218i a\u0219a era de c\u00e2nd m\u0103 \u0219tiam. La televizor, la fel. Peste tot: \u201d…s-ave\u021bi masa \u00eembel\u0219ugat\u0103…\u201d, de parc\u0103 venea sf\u00e2r\u0219itul lumii. Colindele, \u0219i ele, aveau minunata urare.<\/p>\n

\u0218i m\u00e2ncam! Beam! Via\u021b\u0103 frumoas\u0103!!! \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n

S\u0103 nu uit: Cr\u0103ciunul se f\u0103cea \u00een familie! Obligatoriu! \u0218i masa continua \u0219i pe 26, \u0219i diminea\u021ba, \u0219i seara, c\u0103 doar nu gemea degeaba frigiderul.<\/p>\n

A mai trecut timpul, am ajuns la facultate \u0219i apoi am \u00eenceput munca. Deja Cr\u0103ciunul nu se mai f\u0103cea \u00een familie \u2013 nu \u00een formatul din copil\u0103rie. Tata a prins c\u00e2teva s\u0103rb\u0103tori \u00een Israel (a muncit c\u00e2\u021biva ani acolo), mama \u00een Italia, iar eu m-am c\u0103s\u0103torit (\u00een 2002). A\u0219a c\u0103 4 ani am f\u0103cut Cr\u0103ciunul cu socrii, la Bucure\u0219ti. Acelea\u0219i obiceiuri, mai pu\u021bin partea cu porcul, pe care \u00eel cump\u0103ram. \u00cen al\u021bi ani am f\u0103cut Cr\u0103ciunul la Bac\u0103u, la Seba Jr. Sau cu Bianca, la p\u0103rin\u021bii ei. Formatul, neschimbat. M\u00e2ncare mult\u0103, b\u0103utur\u0103 la fel. Ce a ap\u0103rut suplimentar la un moment dat era ie\u0219irea la club. C\u0103 a\u0219a e frumos, s\u0103 fie \u0219i distrac\u021bie!<\/p>\n

Asta p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een 2014, c\u00e2nd am f\u0103cut Cr\u0103ciunul la Borovets, la ski. Rupere de ritm :D. Adic\u0103, cum f\u0103r\u0103 at\u00e2ta m\u00e2ncare??! Eiiii… eram deja \u00een perioada \u00een care lucram s\u0103-mi reduc greutatea. Cred c\u0103 eram pe undeva pe la 74 de kg deja \u0219i eram decis s\u0103-mi p\u0103strez trendul. S\u0103 ajung pe la 72… a\u0219a m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam atunci. Plus c\u0103 nu voiam s\u0103 mai m\u0103n\u00e2nc carne prea des, ci a\u0219a, o dat\u0103 la o lun\u0103-dou\u0103. A\u0219a c\u0103 masa de Cr\u0103ciun a fost una mai normal\u0103, la un restaurant mexican din Borovets. F\u0103r\u0103 porc, f\u0103r\u0103 sarmale, f\u0103r\u0103 jum\u0103ri!!<\/p>\n

De aici \u00eens\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103torul Cr\u0103ciun, lucrurile s-au schimbat cu adev\u0103rat drastic. \u00cen 2015 am decis s\u0103 renun\u021b complet la carne\/lapte\/br\u00e2nz\u0103\/ou\u0103. S-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat cu o zi \u00eenainte de Pa\u0219te… a\u0219a, ca s\u0103 fiu ciudat pe bune \ud83d\ude00 De fapt, eram oricum \u00een ni\u0219te schimb\u0103ri foarte mari. Meditam deja de ceva timp \u0219i \u00eemi schimbasem multe din principiile de via\u021b\u0103<\/a>. Nu doar de alimenta\u021bie<\/a> ;)!<\/p>\n

Apropo: \u00eenc\u0103 m\u0103 mai \u00eentreab\u0103 c\u00e2te cineva chiar \u0219i acum, dac\u0103 am scos \u0219i pe\u0219tele, de parc\u0103 pe\u0219tele e vreo legum\u0103!!! DAAAA, \u0219i pe\u0219tele!!! Hahahahaha!<\/p>\n

A\u0219a c\u0103 de Cr\u0103ciun, \u00een 2015, am m\u00e2ncat normal \u2013 adic\u0103 doar c\u00e2t \u00eemi trebuia pentru o zi!\u00a0 \":mrgreen:\" \u0218i doar m\u00e2ncare vegetarian\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 nici un fel de protein\u0103 animal\u0103, chiar dac\u0103 \u00een jurul meu toat\u0103 lumea se \u00eenfrupta. Eram la Bac\u0103u, la Seba Jr. Da, altfel!<\/p>\n

\u00cen 2016, de Cr\u0103ciun, aceea\u0219i poveste. \u00cen plus, de data asta, nici n-am mai b\u0103ut. Aproape nimic – un pahar de vin. \ud83d\ude09 L\u0103sasem \u0219i b\u0103utura… !! Eram deja v\u0103zut cu al\u021bi ochi. \u00centrebarea: \u201dP\u0103i \u0219i care mai sunt pl\u0103cerile vie\u021bii dac\u0103 nu mai m\u0103n\u00e2nci nimic, nu mai bei nimic??\u201d era la ordinea zilei.<\/p>\n

\u00cen schimb \u00een 2017 am petrecut Cr\u0103ciunul cu Cornelia, care era \u0219i ea din aceea\u0219i ga\u0219c\u0103 de ciuda\u021bi, adic\u0103 m\u00e2nca vegetarian. A fost altceva, \u00een sensul c\u0103 nu se mai uita lumea la mine ca \u0219i cum a\u0219 fi un ciudat. \u0218i nu m-a mai \u00eentrebat nimeni dac\u0103 vreau s\u0103 mor s\u0103n\u0103tos \ud83d\ude00 Nu c\u0103 m-ar deranja \u00een vreun fel \u00eentrebarea, vreodat\u0103. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n

Ultimul Cr\u0103ciun l-am petrecut acum c\u00e2teva zile cu C\u0103t\u0103lina, acas\u0103, \u0219i la masa de Cr\u0103ciun am fost la p\u0103rin\u021bii ei \u0219i bunicii mamei, care locuiesc \u00eempreun\u0103. Nu mai avusesem ocazia s\u0103 vorbim (dec\u00e2t scurt, de vreo dou\u0103 ori, cu mama ei) a\u0219a c\u0103 am avut suficient timp s\u0103 socializ\u0103m. Ne-am sim\u021bit foarte bine, s-au \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit \u0219i daruri, \u00eens\u0103 n-am vorbit de Mo\u0219u\u2019 \ud83d\ude06 . Am m\u00e2ncat doar salat\u0103 de vinete, fasole ro\u0219ie b\u0103tut\u0103 \u0219i legume (ro\u0219ii, castrave\u021bi, m\u0103sline, ceap\u0103) c\u0103 a\u0219a am r\u0103spuns c\u00e2nd am fost \u00eentreba\u021bi ce vrem.\u00a0 Super!!<\/p>\n

Restul timpului l-am petrecut \u00eempreun\u0103, f\u0103c\u00e2nd diverse \u00eempreun\u0103 \u0219i \u00een special vorbind mult despre proiectul nostru VIA\u021aA \ud83d\ude42 N-am sim\u021bit \u00een nici un fel c\u0103-mi lipsesc toate preg\u0103tirile obositoare de Cr\u0103ciun, toate m\u00e2nc\u0103rurile grele sau b\u0103uturile nelipsite.<\/p>\n

A\u0219a c\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc acum: oare chiar am nevoie de Cr\u0103ciun a\u0219a cum este el acum? Chiar \u00eemi trebuie un mo\u0219 \u201ddarnic \u0219i bun\u201d ca s\u0103 ofer un dar cuiva? Sau s\u0103 m\u0103 simt bine? Sau s\u0103 vreau s\u0103 fiu mai bun?<\/p>\n

…c\u0103 de m\u00e2ncat, m-am l\u0103murit deja! \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n

Cu drag,<\/p>\n

Sebastian<\/p>\n

31 decembrie 2018, Borovets<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0218ti\u021bi deja c\u0103 m-am n\u0103scut \u00een Moldova \u0219i mi-am \u00eenceput via\u021ba \u00eentr-o familie tradi\u021bional\u0103… M-am bucurat de mic de sosirea lui Mo\u0219 Cr\u0103ciun \u2013 sau Mo\u0219 Geril\u0103??! Da, parc\u0103 a\u0219a \u00eencepuse, cu Mo\u0219 Geril\u0103: a\u0219a stabiliser\u0103 comuni\u0219tii. Nu de prea multe ori, ca s\u0103 zic a\u0219a, pentru c\u0103 la 4 sau la 5 ani (nici…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4913,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[162],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4660","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-obiceiurile-noastre"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.viata.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4660","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.viata.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.viata.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.viata.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.viata.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4660"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"https:\/\/www.viata.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4660\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6921,"href":"https:\/\/www.viata.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4660\/revisions\/6921"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.viata.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4913"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.viata.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4660"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.viata.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4660"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.viata.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4660"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}